This is why it bothers me.
You knew your mom was racist. You knew she didn’t like Asians…
And yet you bring her to a play date that my kids are at? Seriously?
And I get to listen to a five minute lecture on how Asians don’t assimilate properly on her island all the while I knew her country of origin within the first few sentences of meeting her!?! Ask her, I bet she didn’t even know what nationality I was! We just all look alike. Talk about assimilation!
You were cool and your wife and kids are great. But man… I have better things to do in my life than to listen to some old woman rant at me about my race when… it probably isn’t even my race she is talking about to begin with.