HarsH ReaLiTy – Everywhere and Nowhere

It is my goal on social media to be everywhere and nowhere. A tornado of presence that comes and just “is,” and then is not…

I have had people ask me why I created this website. I have read the speculation and theories as to why I blog. I think only a few people really “get” what I am trying to do… what I am doing here every day. That is ok our minds aren’t meant to be understood by the masses.

I have read many titles about how “blogging isn’t a game” and “blogging isn’t a game of numbers.” I laugh at these posts because to me blogging is a game. It is a game of numbers. It always has been and continues to be for me. The difference between myself and other bloggers is I don’t consider “writing” blogging. Writing is merely one form of blogging and the separation of the two is important to me. Very important.

Writing is a continuous effort and something I hope to be good at one day. I work towards a perfect wordstring daily, it is my ultimate grail. Blogging is not my writing. Blogging is every little thing I do besides the writing on my blog.

HarsH ReaLiTy is Dead.

In many regards HR died months ago. I still kick the can around on this website, but due to changing rules and regulations my blog is only beating the depreciation value. In all respects WordPress successfully killed this blog. I am ok with that and honestly, it was bound to happen sooner or later. This blog simply didn’t gain popularity in the acceptable way. I also didn’t grovel and beg like I was supposed to do apparently.

I am still here pumping my blog and working on it daily. It is really just habit at this point. Without my blog I would have so much free time I would go crazy. Who wants to see that? I know I wouldn’t…



Do you click yourself?

Bloggers if you are receiving no visitors there might be a very simple reason. Is your name linked to your blog? If you click your name does it take you instantly to your website? People generally won’t click more than one link so if you haven’t properly connected your username to your actual blog you might one to fix that. People can’t read your words if they can’t find you.




Opinionated Man:

I actually didn’t read this until now because I was moody at the time. I feel the love from this post and the comments here. Thanks bloggers. -OM
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Originally posted on lindaghill:

No one likes spam. In internet terms (as opposed to the stuff you find on the grocery store shelf) it’s the bane of our existence. Its sole purpose is to get our attention and once it does, it either begs us to buy something or gives us something we would never pay for – something like a virus.

Then there is the exception to the rule. In fact, there is only one exception that I’ve found in over a decade of browsing the web. It may have seemed like a “spam follow” at the start, but when I followed the cookie-crumb trail that led me back to its source, it ended up benefiting me beyond my wildest dreams: it was HarsH ReaLiTy.

Jason, also known as Opinionated Man, has a huge (over 50,000 blog, twitter, and Facebook combined) following on his blog, HarsH ReaLiTy. His passion for connecting with other…

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The Perfect Troll – Andy Kaufman Kavalkade

I saw your recent article during a google search Cory Stubbs https://andykaufmanskavalkadekrew.wordpress.com/2014/11/16/cyberbullying-by-wordpress-blogger-opinionated-man/

Aren’t you tired of “attacking blogs” and then getting your ass handed to you? I’ve watched as Empire Avenue has bashed you left and right and you deserve every single word of it. I find it funny when people like you, people that obviously have very sad lives, go around the internet trolling for fights and then cry like little babies when they get their asses handed to them. Don’t you ever learn your lesson pumpkin? You keep writing these posts about my website and it only shows that deep down inside you honestly love me. You probably want to date me.

Unfortunately for you I am married and you are also ugly… so it would never work. Keep trolling kid and keep complaining about my blog to WordPress http://en.forums.wordpress.com/topic/does-wordpress-allow-intimidation-of-bloggers-on-matters-of-public-interest?replies=7#post-1991388 . You are a great example to everyone of what not to do as a blogger, don’t you get tired of hosting a blog that is nothing but an endless “customer complaint letter?” Get a life Cory. You are the biggest troll on WordPress. Kick rocks loser and grow up.

Note: Still not removing my blogs about you. Your threats of law suits or federal “whatevers” don’t faze me. You are nothing and I am more than happy to share your blog, name, and contact with everyone on WordPress so they can get a good look at what a loser troll looks like.

Note II: I told you the first time to back off. Remember the email you sent me? Here, I’ll include it for the reading enjoyment of everyone so they can see how hard you try at being important… Keep trying pumpkin.

Note III: Emailing my mother was the weakest shit I have ever witnessed on social media. Seriously, how old are you pathetic loser.

Note IV: I was willing to let this die down due to feeling almost sorry for you over your bashing lately, but apparently you love it. You also obviously love picking fights. Keep blogging about me buddy it is amusing.

Wanderin <Wanderin@comcast.net>

Aug 9 – Dude, you need to retract your blogs, and figure out Im not trolling The Wine Wankers. I tried to get your mom to mediate, and she says it’s between us.

Now you ignored me when I asked if you are a threat in comments, and you are intervening it ACTUAL newsworthy content that is being reported on, so clearly I can’t have you saying I have to stay away from such proven liars.

The Wine Wankers have deleted their attack blog, and deleted many, tweets.

The way to have helped them would have been to clearly understand the problem, and tell them they needed to stop acting like jackasses.

And now you are pretty well everywhere, documented thoroughly as a cyber bully and serious, serious troll.

You wanted big boy pants, and you got it.

You want to talk like an adult that blogs, fine. If not, fine.

And I was ok with you, but you can’t teach me any lessons I’m afraid. I respect your blogging accomplishments, but that’s a part of social media, and I explained to you my bonafides, and you wanted to see them.

This is not a “blogger” war.   The Wine Wankers and I both are top 1 percent worldwide at least. They are top .1 and I’ve hit that but am usually 1 percent.

Major media sites including the Wall Street Journal Wine writer shared and discussed their content. And mine as I proved their list a sham.

You truly, truly showed no understanding of the issues at large and what was going on.

Delete your blogs, post a blog apologizing to me, demonstrate your understanding of the issues as they actually are, as The Wine Wankers are news, not just a little “personal list” and tell Vic you appreciate her time taken to try to mediate. Make CERTAIN your audience knows you were mistaken and you are sorry.

I will have to consider criminal charges otherwise, as you meet the harassment statute in CA as is with that open ended threat, and intent that you have clearly established with your blogged “policy” about throwing your weight around. And bloggers are journalists in CA, and my REPORTING was commented on by other journalists and discussed.

And I don’t wnat to do that, but I will if you don’t man up and put on your big boy pants.

I’d rather you feed your kids, be with your wife, and have a happy life. But if you step into mine again in such a way, it will be on again. Clear? I cannot have you trying to determine what is newsworthy for me to report on.

Man up and I will tell WordPress I don’t want to proceed. Your little blog about “Im still here” and everyone should have a scotch does not suffice.

If no one responds in 72 hours I will blog this email and then proceed to file criminally.

Wanderin <Wanderin@comcast.net>


And the email to my mom-

On Sat, Aug 9, 2014 at 2:38 PM, Wanderin <Wanderin@comcast.net> wrote:

You really need to talk to your son.
I cannot accept anyone trying to cyber bully and intimidate me about reporting on newsworthy content that has been shared by various journalists.
My blogs have been shared widely by @klout and others.
Yet your son thinks he can tell me to stay away from his “friends.”
I am not playing around, I am not trolling, and I did not “attack” his friends.
I reported on The Wine Wankers list, which was shared by Will Lyons, questioned by Lori Moreno and Jonathan Christaldi, editor of SOMM Journal asked The WIne Wankers for a response to my blog.
Your son has threatened me for reporting on newsworthy content.
I will file criminal charges based on your sons open ended threat to “stay away from his friends”. The next logical question is, “or what?” Right?
Or what?
Well your son blogs about his anger issues that took 12 years to get over, and did not respond if he meant a physical threat when I questioned him.
As he is in Colorado, and I am in California and there’s an open ended threat, with his issues, I defintely feel he at least meets the criteria for cyber harassment according to California statute.
I want a retraction of his blogs and an apology on his blog.
He can defend his friends, but there’s definitely a right way and a wrong way to go about it,  He has chosen the wrong way.
I hope you will be so kind to intervene. 
My mom’s response – “My son is an adult, so this is between you and him.”